It hits you at unexpected times.
Maybe you're standing at the sink, your hands warm from the dish water.
Or driving, windows cracked, and a certain song drifts through—one that once meant freedom, adventure, possibility.
And there it is: that tug. That ache. That soft, persistent whisper inside:
"Is there more for me?"
You don’t feel ungrateful. You just feel unfinished.
And that thought alone might startle you.
It’s not about dissatisfaction; it’s about the realization that you have dreams, desires, and untapped potential.
And guess what?
It’s not only okay to want more—it’s your time to embrace it.
For so many women, especially after 55, life starts to settle into a quieter rhythm.
The kids are grown. The caregiving may be easing. Your days may be freer—yet strangely, emptier.
And with that space comes a realization: you’ve been living chapters for everyone else.
Now the pen is in your hand. And you’re staring at the page, wondering if you’re still allowed to write a wild, beautiful new story.
You’re human. You’re alive. You’re still becoming.
But society often whispers that “more” is for the young. That women like you—wise, seasoned, richly lived—should feel content with what’s already been.
And while you are grateful, you’re also curious, hopeful, ready.
That readiness can feel unsettling.
You might wrestle with guilt, fearing you’re being indulgent or unrealistic.
But wanting more doesn’t mean abandoning what you’ve built. It means honoring who you’ve become—and trusting there’s still more of you to meet.
This desire isn’t about chasing something outside yourself. It’s about expanding within yourself.
Letting joy take up more room. Letting purpose shift. Letting your identity evolve—not because you’re lacking, but because you’re growing.
The women who dare to say “there’s still more for me” aren’t asking for too much.
They’re answering a sacred call from within.
You’ve been the helper, the healer, the steady one.
And while you wouldn’t change your devotion, there’s an undeniable fatigue from years of holding it all.
Now, the question becomes: who holds you?
Mindset Reframe: Making yourself a priority isn’t abandoning others—it’s finally including yourself.
🌸 Journaling Prompt: In what ways have I postponed my own desires for the sake of others?
Encouragement: You’ve earned this. You don’t need permission to want joy for yourself.
Wanting more isn’t a betrayal of your blessings. It’s a celebration of your vitality.
Even nature—seasoned, rooted, wise—still blooms.
Mindset Reframe: Desire is not the enemy of gratitude—it’s the dance partner.
🌸 Journaling Prompt: What do I desire now, in this version of me?
Encouragement: Your longings are clues. Follow them with trust.
So much of your life has been shaped by roles: mother, partner, caregiver, professional.
But roles aren’t your whole identity. They’re chapters—not the entire book.
Mindset Reframe: Reinvention isn’t rejection of who you were—it’s expansion of who you are.
🌸Journaling Prompt: What old labels am I ready to release? What new ones feel exciting?
Encouragement: You are not stuck in a single storyline. You’re the author of what comes next.
That idea you shelved when the kids were little? That trip you put off for "someday"?
They’re not gone. They’re waiting.
Not in the same form, maybe. But in a way that fits the woman you are now.
Mindset Reframe: It’s never “too late”—it’s just “right now.”
🌸Journaling Prompt: What’s something I used to dream about that still calls to me?
Encouragement: Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it can’t.
You’ve crossed mountains. Weathered storms. Held families together with sheer love.
This next chapter? It’s yours.
Maybe it’s filled with painting classes, solo travel, or starting a blog.
Maybe it’s gardening, mentoring, or simply savoring your mornings slowly.
Whatever it is, it should make you feel seen.
Mindset Reframe: This is not a leftover season—it’s a luminous new beginning.
🌸Journaling Prompt: If I could design my days just for me, what would they look like?
Encouragement: You are not done. You are becoming—still, again, always.
Wanting more isn’t about escaping your life—it’s about enriching it.
It’s about hearing your soul say, “We’re not finished,” and smiling because… you agree.
You are worthy of a life that keeps unfolding, surprising, and delighting you.
Each month, we recommend one featured and two bonus books that echo the soul of our theme—books that meet you exactly where you are and gently stretch you into where you’re going.
Reading Theme: Wanting More Without Shame
Featured Read:
📖 Untamed by Glennon Doyle.
A fierce, honest, and poetic exploration of what it means to unlearn our conditioning and remember who we really are. Glennon dares to ask: “What if we stopped being good so we could be free?”
Why it Fits: This month, we’re reclaiming joy. And Glennon’s truth-telling reminds us we don’t need permission to feel fully alive.
Bonus Reads:
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown — A permission slip to embrace vulnerability and let go of “supposed to.”
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert — A playful yet profound reminder that joy and creativity are sacred, not selfish.
If this resonates in your heart, come join us in The Awakening Circle.
It’s a gentle, soulful space for women over 55 to explore joy, healing, purpose—and the art of beginning again.
Inside, you’ll find:
Guided reflections to uncover what you truly want
Encouragement from Sisterfriends who see you
Monthly themes to gently support your transformation
It’s not just a circle. It’s a homecoming.
Because rediscovery is sacred—and it’s not meant to be done alone.
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You’re allowed to want more from life.
Not because your past wasn’t enough, but because you are enough to keep becoming.
More joy. More wonder. More moments that feel like you.
This next chapter is waiting—and it has your name written all over it.
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